The Top 5 Reasons Why Men Fall Out of Love

why men fall out loveWhy exactly do men fall out of love?

You have probably heard the line “It’s not you, it’s me,” from a man before but is this really the case? It can definitely be frustrating and saddening to hear these words from your man, but when you know the most common reasons why men fall out of love, you can actually prevent these problems from happening in your relationship.

Here are the top 5 reasons why men fall out of love with women.

1. You Are Simply Incompatible

This is a hard one to prevent in a relationship but it is a big reason why a lot of men pull away and fall out of love. It could be that in the beginning he liked that you had different interests but now it gets boring having nothing in common. He may feel that you two can never agree on things or you just don’t like to do any of the same things and it gets old quick.

Usually this type of relationship starts out as lust and may only be a physical attraction and then once the relationship goes on the man realizes that you two are just not compatible and he needs more in a relationship.

2. You Are Too Needy and High Maintenance

Some men can over look being high maintenance or needy in the beginning of a relationship but sooner or later it may just end up driving him away. No man wants to go through life constantly second guessing if they are making their woman happy or how not to make their woman mad.

If you rely on your man for everything he may feel like you are to needy and take up too much of his life. This goes for being high maintenance as well.

 3. It Was Never Love to Begin With

This is actually more popular than some people think. It can be easy to get carried away in a relationship and rush into things. A lot of time with these relationships lust can be mistaken for actual love.

He may also have been pressured into saying “I love you,” from you or from friends or family and wasn’t really sure but didn’t want to hurt your feelings. But sooner or later it will come out that the relationship is not rooted in love and there is not much that can be done about that.

4. He Doesn’t Feel Like You Believe In Him

This is a big one for men as they want to feel like their woman believes in them and builds them up rather than puts them down. If you constantly put your man down or tell him that he is being unreasonable or he can’t do something, you may just find that he falls out of love with you.

No man wants to be with a woman who puts them down or doesn’t have their back. Men want to feel admired and know that they have someone in their life that always has their back no matter what. If your man doesn’t feel this way then it can be easy for him to pull away and fall out of love with you.

 5. You Have Played One Too Many Games

It is very easy to fall out of love with someone who constantly plays games and toys with your heart. Maybe you can’t decide if you really want to be with him so you string him along or try to make him jealous. That is a great way to get your man to fall out of love and want nothing to do with you.

Playing games with your man gets you nowhere except usually alone.

If you find that your man has fall out of love with you, think about the above reasons and see which one relates to your relationship. I’m going to bet that at least one of the reasons above is why your man fell out of love.

If you want to learn more about why men fall out love, I recommend you read the book Why Men Fall Out of Love: What Every Woman Needs to Understand.

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