Make Him Notice Me – 5 Simple Ways to Get the Attention of Just About Any Man

make him notice meDo you have a cute guy in mind that you want to notice you? If you are at all interested in a man, you have to get his attention first before anything else can happen.

Here are 5 simple ways to get a guy to notice you.

1. Smile and Be Happy

A woman who smiles often and generally looks happy attracts a lot more positive attention from men than one who looks all too serious or who looks to be in a bad mood. Men don’t want drama and are attracted to a carefree, happy woman over one that may just fill their life with more drama.

If you catch your guy looking at you don’t be afraid to give him a slight smile to get his attention. The key is to keep it sort of low key and not a total cheesy smile and keep him wondering if the smile is for him. A smile can be one of the best ways to flirt with a man and it is so simple to do.

2. Know Where to Be Seen

With this tip, you don’t want to be a stalker and go everywhere he is, but it doesn’t hurt to find out some things about him to know where he hangs out or what his interests are.

For example if you know that he always goes to the same club on Thursday nights, then make it a priority to show up at that club with your friends. Or if you know he has season tickets to a local sporting team, why not cheer your team on as well? Don’t follow him every day or even more than once a week unless you hang in the same social circle and it is inevitable.

Be sure that you bump into him and act all surprised and by no means give any hint that you knew he was going to be there.

3. Don’t Be Afraid to Approach Him and Talk To Him

Nowadays it really is no big deal when a woman approaches a man and starts up a conversation with him. I know that a lot of girls are too shy or don’t have the self-confidence to do this, but what do you really have to lose?

When you do approach him don’t come on too strong, but instead simply try to get to know him and see if you have anything in common. You can flirt, but don’t act desperate or drool over every word that comes out of his mouth.

4. Eye Contact Will Help You Get Noticed

The thing to keep in mind about eye contact is that you want to play a little coy about it and not as if you are staring at him the whole time. If you do notice that he is glancing your way, don’t be afraid to make eye contact (but only for a few seconds) and smile and then go back to looking at the people around you.

This gives him the message that you see him and gives him the invitation to come over and say “hi” to you.

This also works when walking by the guy as well. Just be sure that you don’t stare at him too long and end up bumping into a wall or someone else.

5. Dress Nice But Not Overly Sexy

You want to look nice but you don’t want to put out a signal that you are easy or just looking for a one night stand (unless of course, that is what you want.) If you go out, avoid wearing an old t-shirt and yoga pants and instead put an effort into your outfit and style with a cute blouse and a pair of jeans or even a casual dress.

Tops that are too low cut or shorts or dresses that are too short, just give off the wrong impression. Yes, they may get attention, but it is usually the wrong type of attention. A little hint of cleavage or a show of some of your leg is enough to get a guy to notice you.

Stop wondering what you can do to make him notice me, and instead follow these tips and you can get the male attention you want without trying too hard.

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