I Want My Boyfriend to Propose – Tips for Reading His Mind and Getting Your Proposal

 Are you ready for marriage? Is your boyfriend ready for marriage?

If you want your boyfriend to propose now, here are some important tips for reading his mind so that you can get your proposal sooner rather than later.

Communication

If you really want your boyfriend to propose then you need to communicate with him. If you feel that strongly about getting married now then you need to talk about your relationship with your man. If you can’t mention the word “Marriage” with your boyfriend right now then you may need to realize that he is not ready for marriage right now. There may be some things you can do to move him along but as of right now your relationship is not at that spot where you can expect a ring in the next week or so.

You may find that after talking to your boyfriend about marriage that he is just waiting for the right time to pop the question. He may tell you that he wants to get married soon but he may be saving money for a ring or just trying to plan the perfect way to get engaged.

A relationship with good and open communication is the best bet to getting your boyfriend to propose. Don’t be afraid to talk to him about long term plans such as buying a house, taking a vacation next summer, and even further ahead like having child. These things let him know you want a future with him as your husband.

Make Him Feel Comfortable But Not That Comfortable

This may sound confusing at first but you need to make your boyfriend feel comfortable around you but not fall into that “too comfortable” trap that some couples fall into.

You want to make sure that your man trust you and respects you. He should feel comfortable talking to you and telling you the way he feels. He shouldn’t have to hide things from you. This is the way that you need to make him feel comfortable.

But, and this is a big but. Don’t fall into the comfort zone that he doesn’t want to get out of. If he is so happy just being your boyfriend or just living with you and doesn’t want anything to change then he isn’t going to propose to you. Have you ever known a couple who have been dating for 5 years and the girl is just longing for that ring and the man is just satisfied with the way the things are and doesn’t need a piece of paper to make his commitment known? You don’t want to turn into this couple!

Don’t make your boyfriend your only friend or person in your life. Make sure you still have a life outside of your relationship. Spend time with your friends and let him do the same. He will realize that you are there for him and that your relationship is real and wants to take it to the next level.

These are just some of the things that you can do to get your boyfriend to propose to you.

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