How Do I Make Him Fall In Love with Me – 5 Simple Things To Do In Your Relationship

make him fall in love with meOne of the biggest questions I get asked by women in a relationship is “How do I make him fall in love with me?”

This question is so common because men often times have a harder time showing their love and emotions and women want to know that their man loves them and that the relationship has potential to go somewhere. I don’t know if there really is a way to make a man fall in love but there are some things to do in your relationship that can speed the process along.

If you are one of those women wondering what they can do to make their man fall in love with them, here are 5 simple things to do that can have your man telling you he loves you.

Be Yourself

I know this has probably been said hundreds of times in other relationship advice articles and such but it is so true. Nothing else you do is going to matter if you aren’t going to be yourself around your man. If you end up being fake he could potentially fall for the woman you are pretending to be and not the one you really are. Also, most men aren’t stupid and will potentially start seeing through if you do act fake. So, don’t be afraid to be yourself and let him know what your interests really are and how great of a person you are.

Keep Things New and Exciting

There is nothing worse than getting into that boring complacency mode with a relationship way too early. By keeping things new and exciting you can show your guy that you care about your relationship and you want to have fun and try new things. This shows him that you aren’t going to be that boring girl and can easily make him fall head over heels in love with you.

Even if you have been together for some months, don’t be afraid to flirt like you just met or be a little mysterious to get his attention even more.

Care About Your Appearance

This may sound vain but if you are constantly walking around in sweatpants with your hair a mess and no makeup on it’s a good bet that your man may just start pulling away from you rather than falling for you. You don’t always have to look like you are made up or ready to hit the red carpet but when you do go out on a date be sure to dress nice and look like someone he can be proud of to have on his arm.

This can also give you more confidence in your relationship as I know that a new haircut or a new cute outfit can always be a great way to boost you up a bit.

Don’t Be At His Beckon Call

This sort of goes back to playing hard to get and you do need to make sure you don’t mess with his head too much, but make sure that you don’t answer to every whim. Make sure that he knows you have a life outside of him and that are independent and not a stage 1 clinger.

This can easily make a man fall in love with you even more because he knows you are independent and strong and that gives him the confidence that your relationship can last and you aren’t just some weepy, dramatic woman.

Emphasize the Interests You Have In Common

Make sure you emphasize the interests the two of you have in common but in a subtle way. For example if you both enjoy baseball, don’t be afraid to invite him to a baseball game with you for a fun and interesting date. By sort of pointing out the different interests that the two of you share you can easily make a man fall in love because he sees just how compatible you are and how much you can do together.

Just remember to still be yourself and don’t be fake about stuff. If he loves Star Wars and you hate it, don’t act like it is your favorite movie of all time or you may just live to regret it and he won’t appreciate you lying to him. This also goes back to keeping the relationship fun and trying new things together to find new interests as well.

There is no magic potion or spell that you can use to make a man fall in love with you, but if you simply follow these 5 tips above you can easily win over the heart of your man.

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